WILL THOSE WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT GOOD DELIVERY OF CARE UNDERSTAND WHY THERE NEEDS TO BE GOOD CARE AND, MOST IMPORTANT AND PRIORITY OVER ALL ...SAFE CARE

A PATIENT AND FAMILY MEMBER; A NURSE AND TECH; MEETING OF THE EYES

Have you distanced yourself from your job?

I see it in your eyes..........

You care but detachment is apparent............

That scares me.............

Will you still give me good care........

You eyes make me feel scared..............

I want to see kindness and care

I see in your body language .....

You don’t really care.........

I see in how you treat other patients.........

You really don’t care..........

And, what can I only feel.... being scared

Do you know how I feel?

Don’t see me as a problem....

See me as being frightened ...

Don’t see me as a problem...

See me as being scared.......

Don’t see me as a problem......

See me as wanting you to care......

Do you know I need help?

I see you at the nurses desk.........

Do you see me, in my chair............

I see you at the nurses desk.........

Do you know I am alone..........

I see you at the nurses desk........

Do you know I need you.........

I see you at the nurses desk........

Do you know I am trying to call for you........

I see you at the nurses desk........

I need you, why aren’t you here.....

I see you at the nurses desk........

Do you know I need your help..........

Please stop your conversation............

Can’t you see, I need you..........

Please come and help..............

I feel that you are ignoring me........

Please stop talking...........

I need you, now.......

Where are you? Please help me?

I am afraid........

My loved one is ill...

What will happen.....

My loved one is ill

Must I be still........

My loved one is ill......

Hear me talk

My loved one is ill.....

I need a kind hand...

To lead me through......

Someone to trust....

To lead me through.......

I need your kind words......

To lead me through......

When I need you...........

To lead me through.........

I need you to be there.........

To lead me through...

My needs are important...

Don’t see me as annoying......

I need your help, now and often............

Don’t see me as annoying .........

I need you to address (our) my concerns...

Don’t see me as annoying .......

Put yourself in my shoes.......

Don’t see me as annoying ...

Make me your ally not foe......

Don’t see me as annoying .....

Be there for me

Don’t see me as annoying........

It is hard to see a loved one ill...

Do you understand........

It is painful to see a loved one ill....

Do you understand...

It is upsetting for our family

Do you understand....

It is overwhelming to think I might lose a loved one....

Do you understand........

It is a feeling of helplessness........

Do you understand........

I need you to be there for me.........

Do you understand.........

Please take time to explain to me.........

All that I need to know........

Fear is overwhelming..........

Frightening thoughts and feelings............

Tender kindness goes a long way.........

We entered, feeling uneasy.......

The nurse greeted us, hand held out.............

Caring and kind...................

Frightened we were........

A new experience

About to begin.........

Please don’t leave us alone,

Be there for us.........

Have you distanced yourself from your job?

I see it in your eyes..........

You care but detachment is apparent............

That scares me.............

Will you still give me good care........

You eyes make me feel scared..............

I want to see kindness and care

I see in your body language .....

You don’t really care.........

I see in how you treat other patients.........

You really don’t care..........

And, what can I only feel.... being scared

I don’t understand the language you speak........

It is a foreign tongue to me........

But you talk to the other nurses, in front of me.......

Are you talking about me........

That scares me..............

Maybe you don’t want me to know.........

Am I very ill..........

Am I going to die.........

Why are you speaking so I don’t understand...........